Veteran Nigerian actor Jim Iyke has voiced his strong disapproval of what he refers to as modern feminism, arguing that it has deviated dangerously from its original mission. In his latest interview with The EchoRoom, the Nollywood star described the contemporary feminist movement as a manipulated ideology that now borders on criminal intent, a far cry from the just cause it once represented. According to Iyke, early feminist advocacy had commendable goals, such as fighting against gender inequality, male dominance, and societal injustice toward women. However, he believes that the movement has been hijacked by media and commercial interests, leading to a widespread ideology that fosters rivalry between genders rather than equality or collaboration. “I view the current trend of feminism as a crime, a form of mental assault,” Jim Iyke stated during the interview. He went further to say that a popular women’s magazine, which he chose not to identify, strategically engineered the new wave of feminism as part of a marketing agenda. Their goal, according to him, was to boost readership and sales by targeting their primary audience – women. To do so, they fabricated an ideology that encouraged women to challenge male authority and societal norms, turning it into a profitable campaign. “They initiated a very clever sales strategy,” he explained. “The campaign gave women a sense of competition with men. That idea took root, spread fast, and eventually transformed into a radical belief system that many women embraced without questioning its origin or motive.” The 48-year-old actor didn’t hold back in condemning how this distorted feminist ideology has shifted into a cultural mindset, where some women now view men as unnecessary or even adversarial. “It became a revolution that spun out of control,” he said. “The notion of ‘we don’t need men’ or ‘we can outperform men in every area’ became popular slogans. Eventually, this became more than an ideology – it became a way of life and a new cultural identity.” Jim Iyke also drew attention to what he called the hypocrisy and double standards within the modern feminist narrative. Rather than promoting equality, he claims that today’s feminism is contradictory, operating with two different sets of values that undermine natural gender balance. “That contradiction is exactly why I have a problem with it,” he remarked. “Can’t you see the lie in all of this? There’s a two-faced approach to gender equality that simply doesn’t align with the reality of human roles.” He concluded by asserting his belief that men and women are not the same, and that their differences are complementary, not competitive. According to Iyke, true harmony lies in recognizing these distinctions and working together rather than pushing one gender above the other. “The genuine balance of life,” he said, “comes when men and women understand their unique roles and collaborate rather than compete. That’s something many who promote modern feminism have failed to grasp.”
Veteran Nollywood actress Shaffy Bello has opened up about her current perspective on relationships, revealing that even at the age of 54, she still receives advances from younger men online. Speaking candidly, she shared her sentiments about the direct messages (DMs) she receives, especially from much younger admirers. She admitted it can be flattering but not always respectful. “Yes, I still get DMs from men. When you’re over 50 and young men still message you, it feels good — it’s flattering. But some of them approach very poorly. Some will just say things like, ‘Hi dear.’ At that point, you just feel like insulting their mother,” she expressed. This revelation came during a recent interview on the Dear Ife Podcast, where Bello clarified her current stance on romantic relationships, particularly with younger men. She made it clear that she is no longer open to dating younger partners. Shaffy explained that although she had been in such a relationship before, it was purely for enjoyment, and that phase of her life has passed. “I can’t date a younger man anymore. I don’t see any reason to. I’ve been in that kind of relationship before — it was for fun and for a specific season. That season is over for me. I’m now looking for something different. There’s nothing wrong with dating someone younger, but I’ve moved past that,” she said. The movie icon emphasized that her current desire is for a committed union, highlighting how her expectations have evolved over time. “At this stage in my life, I know exactly what I want — and that is marriage. I’m open to it, but I have a very different understanding of what marriage means compared to the general Nigerian perception. Many people are too rigid in their view of marriage. I’ll just leave it at that,” Bello added. Shaffy Bello was previously married to Akinrimisi, a union that lasted from 1995 until 2020. The marriage produced two children.
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The Nigeria Police Force (NPF) has formally summoned popular Nollywood actress, Iyabo Ojo, for questioning regarding alleged cyberbullying. This follows a live video she published back in 2023 where she publicly criticized certain individuals believed to be connected to the mysterious death of young singer, Mohbad. On Thursday, the actress, who is based in Lagos, took to social media to disclose that she had received an official invitation from the National Cybercrime Centre in Abuja. According to her post, the allegations revolve around comments she made in the video, where she called out specific individuals to submit themselves for police interrogation and clear their names in connection with Mohbad’s tragic passing. “I was recently invited by the Nigeria Police Force, National Cybercrime Centre, Abuja, over petitions bordering on cyberbullying and other allegations concerning the live video I recorded a few years ago,” Iyabo stated. She elaborated further: “In that video, I requested certain individuals to make themselves available for investigation into Mohbad’s sudden death in order to prove their innocence or otherwise.” This development comes roughly four months after the court cleared music executive Sam Larry and controversial singer Naira Marley of any direct involvement in Mohbad’s untimely death. The Mohbad Case: Background Mohbad, whose full name was Ilerioluwa Oladimeji Aloba, died in September 2023 under controversial and suspicious circumstances that quickly captured nationwide attention. Social media was flooded with past videos showing the artist being harassed and bullied—allegedly by his former label boss, Naira Marley, and his associate Sam Larry. The videos and emerging details surrounding Mohbad’s death triggered widespread outrage. Iyabo Ojo became one of the leading voices demanding justice. Her calls for accountability particularly focused on ensuring that those who had previous conflicts with the late singer were thoroughly investigated. Due to public outcry and continuous pressure on authorities, both Sam Larry and Naira Marley were arrested in October 2023. However, investigations concluded with their eventual release and legal clearance from any direct complicity in the death. Legal Battle Between Iyabo Ojo and Naira Marley The situation further escalated in December 2023, when Naira Marley, through his legal representatives, issued a demand letter to Iyabo Ojo, requesting a public apology along with ₦500 million in damages for alleged defamation and emotional distress caused by her video and public statements. Iyabo Ojo, in turn, responded with a countersuit totaling ₦1 billion, asserting that she acted in good faith and stood on the side of justice. Her legal team maintained that her demands for accountability were justified, given the gravity of the allegations and the sensitive nature of Mohbad’s death. See Iyabo Ojo’s Full Instagram Statement You can view her complete post regarding the police invitation and allegations here on her official Instagram page.
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Actress Lilian Afegbai Reacts to Friend’s Pricey Wedding Aso Ebi Popular Nollywood actress Lilian Afegbai has publicly expressed her shock after discovering that her friend, a Lagos-based bride, is selling her wedding aso ebi fabric in dollars. The actress took to Instagram on Wednesday to share her disbelief, revealing that she was asked to pay a staggering $1,200 for the aso ebi fabric. “Nigerian Brides Are Overdoing It” – Lilian Afegbai In her post, Afegbai questioned why wedding guests in Nigeria are now being asked to pay for aso ebi in foreign currency. “Are people now selling aso ebi in dollars in Lagos? You guys are doing too much!” She explained that after receiving an invitation to the wedding, she happily congratulated the bride and checked the event details. However, she was taken aback when she saw the price tag of $1,200 for the fabric. At first, Afegbai assumed the amount was in Naira, thinking it might be a generous discount. But upon checking further, she realized the price was actually in U.S. dollars, prompting her to do the conversion. “$1,200 multiplied by 1,600 Naira per dollar—how many millions is that? For someone else’s wedding? Is it my ‘I do’? Everybody should relax, there is life after the wedding!” Luxury Aso Ebi: A Growing Trend? The rising cost of aso ebi fabrics at Nigerian weddings has sparked debates on social media, with many questioning the pressure placed on guests to spend excessively. Some have linked this trend to wedding prestige and social status, where brides aim for grand celebrations regardless of the financial strain on their guests. According to a report by BusinessDay, the luxury wedding industry in Nigeria continues to expand, with event vendors and designers catering to high-end clientele willing to spend millions on outfits and decorations. Final Thoughts Lilian Afegbai’s reaction has ignited conversations about the extravagant demands placed on wedding attendees in Nigeria. As the debate continues, many are left wondering whether this trend is sustainable or if it’s time for a cultural shift in wedding expectations. Do you think wedding aso ebi should be this expensive? Share your thoughts in the comments. READ ALSO: Follow the LMSINT MEDIA channel on WhatsApp: Join Our WhatsApp Group Hear: Chat on WhatsApp Join our Telegram Chanel.
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Nollywood has been thrown into mourning following the tragic passing of veteran actress Nkechi Nweje. Reports confirm that the talented movie star died on Friday after battling a short illness. Popular filmmaker and producer Stanley Ajemba, widely known as Stanley Ontop, announced the heartbreaking news on Saturday via his Instagram page. Sharing a picture of the late actress, he expressed his grief, writing: “Nollywood in deep sorrow as we lose one of our vibrant actresses, @nkechi.nweje, after a brief illness. It felt unreal, and I couldn’t bring myself to post earlier. Ezigbo Nwanyi Onitsha. Rest in peace, ma’am. My best friend, who often called to offer me advice. Our last conversation was during the Queenth saga when she told me, ‘Ontop, stop.’ I’m still speechless.” Nkechi Nweje, known for her exceptional performances in Nollywood movies, leaves behind a grieving family, including her husband and six children. Her legacy in the Nigerian film industry will always be remembered. Nkechi Nweje’s Contributions to Nollywood The late actress played significant roles in numerous Nollywood films, earning recognition for her versatility and strong on-screen presence. Her passing is a great loss to the industry and her colleagues, who have described her as a warm and talented individual. Tributes Pour In for Nkechi Nweje Following the announcement of her death, tributes have flooded social media, with fans and colleagues expressing their condolences and sharing fond memories of the late actress. Learn more about Nollywood’s veteran actors and their impact on the industry here. READA ALSO: Follow the LMSINT MEDIA channel on WhatsApp: Join Our WhatsApp Group Hear: Chat on WhatsApp Join our Telegram Chanel.
