Nigerian Parents Don’t Scold Children Who Are Breadwinners

Nigerian music sensation, Divine Ikubor, better known as Rema, has made an intriguing statement about Nigerian parenting, claiming that parents in Nigeria tend not to scold their children who are the primary financial providers for the family.

Rema shared this perspective during a conversation with content creator Enzo. The discussion began when Rema suggested that Enzo get a tattoo similar to his. However, Enzo quickly pointed out that his mother would disapprove of such a decision, recalling an incident when his mother had kept malice with him for several days after he braided his hair.

In response, Rema reassured Enzo that parents usually ease up on children who are financially successful, advising him to “work harder” and “cash out big” to earn his family’s respect and understanding. He stated, “Don’t worry, you just need to hustle a little bit more. Wait till you cash out big. Nigerian parents don’t advise breadwinners.”

Rema’s comment sheds light on his own personal journey as he has been the financial backbone of his family since his teenage years. The singer revealed that after the passing of his father, he took on the responsibility of providing for his family. At the young age of 17, Rema made his first million and immediately gave all of it to his mother, marking a significant moment in his life as both an artist and a family provider.