Erigga: Nigerian Women Date For Financial Survival, Not Love Or Romance

Nigerian hip-hop artist Erigga has sparked heated conversations online with his recent remarks about the motives behind romantic relationships involving Nigerian women. His candid commentary suggests that many women in Nigeria enter into relationships primarily for financial support rather than emotional or romantic connection.

Taking to his verified X (formerly Twitter) account, the Warri-born rapper expressed his discontent with what he described as a transactional approach to relationships. He argued that, in today’s Nigerian society, love has become synonymous with monetary support.

In his words:

“Nigerian women are not deep. They date for survival, not romance. Thus, intentional man means rich. Romance means monetary gesture. Love means footing their bills. What you people are doing in Nigeria, is not relationship.”

The statement has since gone viral, drawing mixed reactions from the public. While some agree with Erigga’s point of view, others have criticized it as a generalization that fails to reflect the true dynamics of modern relationships in Nigeria.

This conversation opens up a broader discourse about the impact of economic hardship on romantic relationships in Nigeria. As financial pressure increases, it appears that survival instincts often influence relationship choices, especially among the youth.

Erigga’s message reflects a growing sentiment shared by some social commentators and relationship experts, who argue that economic realities are reshaping the definition of love and companionship in urban African societies. An article by BBC Africa once noted how financial stability is becoming a central theme in the dynamics of dating in several African countries.

For readers interested in understanding how societal pressures affect romantic values, you might want to read our post on Modern Love and Survival in Nigerian Society.