The Danger Of Parental Curses: A Message Inspired By Hushpuppi’s Case

All praise is due to Allah, the Lord of the Worlds. May peace and blessings be upon Prophet Muhammad, his family, and companions.

Dear brothers and sisters, this message addresses an important topic inspired by the story of Ramon Olorunwa Abbas, also known as Hushpuppi. Abbas, a former Instagram influencer and self-proclaimed real estate mogul, is currently serving an 11-year prison sentence in the United States for fraud.

While Abbas’ actions have brought immense shame to his family, reports have surfaced that his parents have cursed him in frustration over his behavior. His mother lamented the disgrace he brought upon their family, while his father expressed regret and disappointment over their son’s choices.

As Muslims, we must reflect deeply on this situation and the teachings of Islam regarding cursing one’s children.

The Islamic Perspective on Cursing Children

Parents play a pivotal role in shaping their children’s lives, and Islam places immense value on maintaining this sacred bond. Despite the severity of a child’s actions, Islam emphasizes forgiveness and prayer over curses.

Prophetic Guidance:

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) warned against cursing and stressed its far-reaching consequences:

A curse that is undeserved rebounds on the person who utters it.
Cursing is likened to depriving someone of Allah’s mercy, which is a grave offense.
The Prophet also said, “Cursing a believer is like killing him.”

These teachings emphasize the danger of allowing anger or frustration to lead to utterances that could harm both the child and the parent spiritually.

The Ripple Effects of Parental Curses

Cursing children is not only harmful to them but can also negatively impact parents:

Spiritual Backlash: If a curse is unjustified, it rebounds on the one who uttered it.
Emotional Strain: Constant negativity can lead to a toxic family dynamic.
Missed Opportunities: Instead of seeking Allah’s mercy for their child, parents may invoke harm, which contradicts Islamic values.

Instead, parents are encouraged to pray for guidance and goodness for their children, even during challenging times.

A Call for Forgiveness

Abbas’ story serves as a cautionary tale, not just about the consequences of fraud, but also about the importance of maintaining family unity and forgiveness. It is vital for Abbas’ parents—and all parents facing similar challenges—to seek Allah’s guidance and replace curses with prayers for their children’s repentance and success.

The Responsibility of Scholars and Communities

Islamic scholars and community leaders have a responsibility to support families in distress. In situations like this, offering guidance to both parents and children can prevent further harm. Let us extend our hands to those struggling and remind them of the mercy and forgiveness of Allah.

Conclusion:

As Muslims, we must guard our tongues and hearts, choosing prayers over curses and unity over division. Let us remember that no matter the offense, everyone deserves a chance to seek forgiveness and redemption.

May Allah guide us, purify our tongues, and grant peace and unity to our families and communities. Ameen.